Minggu, 03 Maret 2013

precious metals for Mahar♥

A moment ago,
my mom give me advised for asking such a gold jewelry for dowry. 
 Including bracelet, ring and necklace.
Then, I try to get a lot of information about what's best or worst for a dowry.
 And finally, I decided to ask a Precious Metals (logam mulia) for a dowry. 
I remembered the Hadist about Islamic dowry ;

"Wanita terbaik adalah yang paling mudah Maharnya."
-HR. Ahmad-

The most easily here means not the most cheaper. 
It means the most readily available, or at least easy to find.
One day, when my future husband asked me, what such a dowry I like. 
I answered, it's up to you...
I like a Precious Metals, but the weights is adjust to your abilities.
Then he prepares money to buy me a dowry.
He bough me a dowry more than my previous estimates. 
he said, this dowry for my future investments, mhihihi..

I should take care of my dowry♥ ♥ ♥ 


You're great, I'm the reason.

Yesterday, I was chat with a young woman,
 She's an intelligent woman. 
She has a thriving business. 
I think she's  more focused on branding, 
different with me, I'm focused on Sales.
 She said, she wanted to success before 35 years. 
and I said amien for her prays.
 Then from those conversation, I was think again about my dreams. 
Although everyone has a right to success.
 I want to be success also, 
but what I want the most is, 
I wish my husband more success, 
I just want to be a woman behind my husband, 
who encourage, motivated, 
and I want to be the reason behind his success., 
that's all I want :')

the power of RP♥

I love to design anything, like bags, clothes, accessories,
furniture, interior or exterior.
But I wouldn't say I'm designer.
I could photograph. But I wouldn't say I'm a Photographer.
I could make any kinds of cakes. But I'm not a chef.
I love to learn about ANYTHING.
 I am a woman with many interest of all things.
 I am a Learner.
I'm happy while making business plans.
 I love to thinking how to earn a lot of money.
 That's why, me and my boyfriend.
 Our name initials are Rp.
Rp is the currency symbol of Indonesia.
 This become our prayer, and a symbol both of us.
 Hopefully we can enhance each other.

 -Love,  Rp-

honeymoon plan ,ahahaha ♥

dear fellas, this is the best part I like .ahahaha
first, I love holidays♥ 
second, me and my boyfriend are rarely met. We're always far apart. Hi lives in eastern Indonesia, and back to jakarta every two or three months. yup! he works there. Since three years ago. He's an employee, and also he's a businessman (cafe owner), his life was filled with the routine. 
so, this trip will be very enjoyable for both of us. 
I've made the rundown. ahahaha.
you have to understand it, i'm a degree of economics.  everything in my life are planned! ;p



engage day♥

and then, after 4 years of our relationship...
 I choose you to be my Imam, a person I trust to guide me, a person who will accompany me, everyday...
I decide my life will end with you. If you think it's because of Love., you're wrong :) 
it's a matter of choice, I choose to love him.. and I am responsible of my choices ...
and the conclusion is., excellent ! I love him..for always


















Sabtu, 02 Maret 2013

"Emosi Anda adalah budak dari pikiran
Anda dan Anda adalah budak dari emosi
Anda" - Elizabeth Gilbert

"Kau takkan pernah menang

kalau kau tidak dapat mengendalikan
emosimu." 

Selasa, 11 Desember 2012

Mengapa Kita Membaca Al Quran Meski Tidak Mengerti Satupun Artinya ??


Cucu lelakinya ingin sekali menjadi seperti kakeknya dan mencoba untuk menirunya dalam cara apapun semampunya. Suatu hari sang cucu bertanya, “Kakek! Aku mencoba untuk membaca Qur’an seperti yang engkau lakukan tetapi aku tidak memahaminya, dan apa yang aku pahami aku lupakan secepat aku menutup buku. Apa sih kebaikan dari membaca Qur’an?

Dengan tenang sang Kakek meletakkan batubara di tungku pemanas sambil berkata, “Bawa keranjang batubara ini ke sungai dan bawa kemari lagi penuhi dengan air.”
Maka sang cucu melakukan seperti yang diperintahkan kakek, tetapi semua air habis menetes sebelum tiba di depan rumahnya.
Kakek tertawa dan berkata, “Lain kali kamu harus melakukannya lebih cepat lagi,” Maka ia menyuruh cucunya kembali ke sungai dengan keranjang tersebut untuk dicoba lagi. Sang cucu berlari lebih cepat, tetapi tetap, lagi-lagi keranjangnya kosong sebelum ia tiba di depan rumah.

Dengan terengah-engah, ia berkata kepada kakeknya bahwa mustahil membawa air dari sungai dengan keranjang yang sudah bolong, maka sang cucu mengambil ember sebagai gantinya.

Sang kakek berkata, “Aku tidak mau satu ember air; aku hanya mau satu keranjang air.
“Ayolah, usahamu kurang cukup,” sang kakek pun pergi ke luar pintu untuk mengamati usaha cucu laki-lakinya itu. Cucunya yakin sekali bahwa hal itu mustahil, tetapi ia tetap ingin menunjukkan kepada kakeknya, biar sekalipun ia berlari secepat-cepatnya, air tetap akan bocor keluar sebelum ia sampai ke rumah.

Sekali lagi sang cucu mengambil air ke dalam sungai dan berlari sekuat tenaga menghampiri kakek, tetapi ketika ia sampai didepan kakek keranjang sudah kosong lagi. Sambil terengah-engah ia berkata,
“Lihat Kek, percuma!”
“Jadi kamu pikir percuma?”
Kakek berkata, “Lihatlah keranjangnya.”

Sang cucu menurut, melihat ke dalam keranjangnya dan untuk pertama kalinya menyadari bahwa keranjang itu sekarang berbeda. Keranjang itu telah berubah dari keranjang batubara yang tua kotor dan kini bersih, luar dalam.

“Cucuku, hal itulah yang terjadi ketika kamu membaca Al Qur’an. Kamu tidak bisa memahami atau ingat segalanya, tetapi ketika kamu membaca nya lagi, kamu akan berubah, di dalam dan di luar dirimu.”

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